MEETING PEOPLE:

MEETING PEOPLE -Go out and meet people, go out to public places like a church on a Sunday, a bar on Fridays, preferably sport bars, go to a lounge, club on a happy hour Wednesday and Saturdays. Go to a pub, restaurant and a coffee shop. And even try online community dating sites. Take a walk to the mall, shopping center, grocery store, a park, a gym, and even a walk in the neighborhood. Remember do not stalk your neighbors and avoid soliciting. Try dating people at your work place; you will be surprise to find someone that shares the same values as you at work even those that you have fewer expectations for. Do not hesitate to approach someone you are interested in and finds attractive. For men it is sometimes difficult, so be careful how you approach a woman. You have to be polite and gentle. Do not use any foul language that will offend her. -If you still having difficulties meeting people, ask your family members and friends to connect you with their friends that are possibly finding someone too. It can be uncomfortable sometimes but this is another way to meet people and it is sometime very effective. -Take a walk to the mall or park-if you see someone that you are interested in, the first thing you want to look at is their finger to ensure they do not have a wedding ring on their finger. Make eye contact and smile; you only have one chance if you are a man so take it if they smile back at you, walk up to them and start a conversation by making nice compliments. Make compliments about their hair, dress or their perfume. Dress nice to impress, first impression always counts choose to wear something nice and comfortable. Use nice cologne, most women likes a man that smells nice. - You want to talk about their looks in a positive way, maybe invite them to have a cup of coffee on a cold day or some ice cream on a hot sunny day or lunch in the afternoon. Timing is critical, so you got to think and make the right gestures at the right time. If you reach a point in time where you wants to try a handshake; be gentle but firm to show that you are pleased to meet them. Also some women tell a man’s personality by the grip of their hand. The firmer the grip the stronger the personality. I am sure no man wants to be perceived as a man with a weak personality. However; handshakes are not universal, in some cultures handshakes are not acceptable at all. Do not feel too bad if someone refuse to shake your hand. -If you are a woman you got many chances, engage in flirtation and make your move when the time is right by complimenting your male counterpart. If you walk up to 10 men and ask them out, you will wonder how many will say. You might get 10 out of 10 chances because men react positively to women most of the time. However; as woman you do not want to come off cheap or sloppy, so be very classy yet sexy. Be indirect in your approach, try talking about sports or cars If you know something about sport or cars, such will be good topics to start a conversation on. Remember you do not have to like sports yourself. Just use a sport tactic to get to a man that you find interesting and attractive. Choose football for example and you do not know about football ask family members that knows about football to give you tips. Be familiar with the names of football clubs and teams that are playing for that week. Or you may even ask about a sport club in the area.