Sunday, September 19, 2010

Do's and Don't's On a First Date

Do’s and Don’ts on a first Date:
Do make compliments that are true and real. Do not exaggerate and make untruthful compliments .For examples do not tell a woman she looks like Halle Berry when she is not. Or a man he looks like Denzel Washington when he is not.
Do tell lies because everyone is expected to tell lies to impress the opposite sex, but limit the lies to make first time impressions and not life time lies that you will hinder the relationships progress in the future. Mind you; you are building a love foundation and should not have loopholes to begin with.
Men-do not offer to buy a car for a woman on the first date. It will make you look desperate. And or will make them think you are paying them for their sexuality.
Women-do not accept gifts such as a car from men that you do not know, it will lead to rape or altercation. Because when a man offer to buy you a car on the first date; it is too obvious that something is not right. Remember a man will always expect something in return after a nice gesture and will definitely want something bigger after buying a car. A romantic man will start by buying a flower, a coffee, a drink, and or lunch on the first date. And because it is not too expensive, they will not desperately want something in return.
Dress nice to impress, mind you first impression always counts. So choose to wear something comfortable and sexy. Do not wear excessive make up but try to highlight your beauty by applying some as you wish.
Keep conversations going by talking about common interests with the intent of learning each other’s likes or dislikes? Do not talk about your whole self in the first five minutes. This could take all the curiosity out of the equation and there will be nothing to talk about anymore.
Do flirt, but do not use intensive sexual content on the first day. People want to talk about sexuality but are sometimes not comfortable doing so on the first date. And sometimes it will bring out the impression that he or she is looking for sex.

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