Sunday, September 19, 2010

What Men Want In a Woman?

What Men Want In a Woman?
By Ask2ray
What Men Want In a Woman?When becoming interested and involved in a guy, it's easy to become attached quickly - and sacrifice your independence... Just a tip ladies:men want an independent woman who every now and then will make room to fit him in her weekly schedule!Share your thoughts!

MEETING PEOPLE:

MEETING PEOPLE -Go out and meet people, go out to public places like a church on a Sunday, a bar on Fridays, preferably sport bars, go to a lounge, club on a happy hour Wednesday and Saturdays. Go to a pub, restaurant and a coffee shop. And even try online community dating sites. Take a walk to the mall, shopping center, grocery store, a park, a gym, and even a walk in the neighborhood. Remember do not stalk your neighbors and avoid soliciting. Try dating people at your work place; you will be surprise to find someone that shares the same values as you at work even those that you have fewer expectations for. Do not hesitate to approach someone you are interested in and finds attractive. For men it is sometimes difficult, so be careful how you approach a woman. You have to be polite and gentle. Do not use any foul language that will offend her. -If you still having difficulties meeting people, ask your family members and friends to connect you with their friends that are possibly finding someone too. It can be uncomfortable sometimes but this is another way to meet people and it is sometime very effective. -Take a walk to the mall or park-if you see someone that you are interested in, the first thing you want to look at is their finger to ensure they do not have a wedding ring on their finger. Make eye contact and smile; you only have one chance if you are a man so take it if they smile back at you, walk up to them and start a conversation by making nice compliments. Make compliments about their hair, dress or their perfume. Dress nice to impress, first impression always counts choose to wear something nice and comfortable. Use nice cologne, most women likes a man that smells nice. - You want to talk about their looks in a positive way, maybe invite them to have a cup of coffee on a cold day or some ice cream on a hot sunny day or lunch in the afternoon. Timing is critical, so you got to think and make the right gestures at the right time. If you reach a point in time where you wants to try a handshake; be gentle but firm to show that you are pleased to meet them. Also some women tell a man’s personality by the grip of their hand. The firmer the grip the stronger the personality. I am sure no man wants to be perceived as a man with a weak personality. However; handshakes are not universal, in some cultures handshakes are not acceptable at all. Do not feel too bad if someone refuse to shake your hand. -If you are a woman you got many chances, engage in flirtation and make your move when the time is right by complimenting your male counterpart. If you walk up to 10 men and ask them out, you will wonder how many will say. You might get 10 out of 10 chances because men react positively to women most of the time. However; as woman you do not want to come off cheap or sloppy, so be very classy yet sexy. Be indirect in your approach, try talking about sports or cars If you know something about sport or cars, such will be good topics to start a conversation on. Remember you do not have to like sports yourself. Just use a sport tactic to get to a man that you find interesting and attractive. Choose football for example and you do not know about football ask family members that knows about football to give you tips. Be familiar with the names of football clubs and teams that are playing for that week. Or you may even ask about a sport club in the area.

Which of These Six Guys would you end up Dating?

Which of These Six Guys would you end up Dating? Which of these 6 guys would you end up Dating if you were stranded on an Island...The Keeper-He's handsome, but he's no pretty boy....The Jerk-who will say "you looked fat in those jeans"...The Loser-a nice guy but still live with his mom...Mr. Smartypants- You felt smarter when you are around him but he'd rather talk ...than have sex....The Lunatic-crazy but makes you laugh.... The Jock: Dumb as hell but he is Hot

What Are Your Thoughts on Viagra For Women?

What are your thoughts on Viagra For Women? The Drivers of Female Sexual Dysfunction Female sexual dysfunction is characterized by a lack of desire, arousal and orgasm. Lack of desire is the chief complaint among women, affecting about one-third of them at some point in their lives. The Cause? A woman's lack of sexual interest is often tied to her relationship with her partner. "The important sex organ [for women] is between the ears. Men need a place for having sex — women need a purpose,". But it can also be triggered by family concerns, illness or death, financial or job worries, childcare responsibilities, managing a career and children, previous or current physical and emotional abuse, fatigue and depression. Indeed, female sexual dysfunction seems to be psychologically — rather than physically — rooted. "What the genitals are doing may play a less important role in how a woman defines her sexual arousal,". "I don't think there will ever be an aphrodisiac that will make [women] want to have sex all the time." That's not to say its causes aren't physical. Hypertension, heart disease, cancer, diabetes, thyroid disorders, neurological diseases and autoimmune disorders like lupus can all contribute to a woman's lack of sexual desire. Other factors include prescriptions drugs, particularly anti-hypertensives and depression medication, as well as over-the-counter medications and illegal drugs and alcohol abuse

Dating Tips For Men And Woman:

Dating Tips For Men And Women! Dating Tips for Men: A perfect date will start with buying some nice flowers on a first date, go to a movie and or a nice dinner. On a second date will recommend going to a nice fancy dinner or an event s. Third dates are always a repetition of the first or second date especially if they went well. You can sometimes broaden your experiences by going to a dance club, lounge to get closer to your date. A bar is also an option on the third date but do not get drunk. You want to be conscious of every conversation on a date and do not want to blame any inconsistencies on the alcohol. On a third date ones expectation is always trying to get a first kiss if it did not happen on the first and second dates. And depending on the chemistry and compatibility there is a possibility of love making for the first time before the day or night ends. Dating Tips for Women: A perfect date will include being as nice as you can be, be mindful of what you ask for and do not accept gifts that are out of the norm. In reality men always want something in return after offering generous gifts. Dress nice to impress and do not look tacky or cheap; remember men fall in love with their eyes and the first sight on you determines if they will proceed or not. Do not look too anxious and desperate. Remember play hard to get and not too hard to get. Sometimes show that you are independent by offering to pay nut do not insist if a man says they will take care of the bill. Men like independent women but will ran away from too independent women because they always think they have nothing to offer to you besides physical attraction. Do’s and Don’ts on a first Date: Do make compliments that are true and real. Do not exaggerate and make untruthful compliments .For examples do not tell a woman she looks like Halle Berry when she is not. Or a man he looks like Denzel Washington when he is not. Do tell lies because everyone is expected to tell lies to impress the opposite sex, but limit the lies to make first time impressions and not life time lies that you will hinder the relationships progress in the future. Mind you; you are building a love foundation and should not have loopholes to begin with. Men-do not offer to buy a car for a woman on the first date. It will make you look desperate. And or will make them think you are paying them for their sexuality. Women-do not accept gifts such as a car from men that you do not know, it will lead to rape or altercation. Because when a man offer to buy you a car on the first date; it is too obvious that something is not right. Remember a man will always expect something in return after a nice gesture and will definitely want something bigger after buying a car. A romantic man will start by buying a flower, a coffee, a drink, and or lunch on the first date. And because it is not too expensive, they will not desperately want something in return. Dress nice to impress, mind you first impression always counts. So choose to wear something comfortable and sexy. Do not wear excessive make up but try to highlight your beauty by applying some as you wish. Keep conversations going by talking about common interests with the intent of learning each other’s likes or dislikes? Do not talk about your whole self in the first five minutes. This could take all the curiosity out of the equation and there will be nothing to talk about anymore. Do flirt, but do not use intensive sexual content on the first day. People want to talk about sexuality but are sometimes not comfortable doing so on the first date. And sometimes it will bring out the impression that he or she is looking for sex. Do subtly touch one another to test the waters but do not attempt to make inappropriate sexual moves unless you see a signal from the opposite sex. And be careful not to misread the signals and throw your date off. Talk about past experiences but do not try to impress your date by talking about your past relationships. Especially; not the one that your ex bought you nice things, take you to expensive places etc…Red flag! Your date will think you are a gold digger. Men-do not talk about sports or cars except if a female counterpart starts a conversation on such topics. Do not talk about fashion; most women will think you are gay. Talk about a nice romantic movie you have seen, a song or even talk about hobbies and favorite things they like to do. A man or woman wants someone classy as well as freaky. Therefore; there should be a balance in approach. Do not get drunk and avoid talking about controversial topics on the first date. Make the conversation a two way street

Flirting!

Flirting! HINTS:-Flirting is a very good sign of romance and it is good to flirt but do not flirt if the opposite sex does not respond, especially if they ask you to stop. You want to engage in flirtation even with your partners, it gives them confidence that you still find them interesting and attractive. Remember everybody flirts because flirting is a subtle seduction with playful romantic gestures. Flirting is a way to express interests in a potential male or female partner. Or it is also use to determine potential partner’s availability. Flirting will last for a very long time in a relationship and it helps a relationship stays alive. Types of flirtations: Men: Women: Licking of the lips tossing of hair Friendly teasing laughing Biting of lower lips winking Smile cheekiness Compliments flattery

What Men Want In Bed?

There are many things that men want in bed and the list consist of general themes such as pleasure,flexibility etc....Simply a man wants pleasure , an amazing girlfriend that loves sex. Attractiveness is another thing that men looks for in bed ...There is nothing less attractive than someone who sees sex as more of an inconvenience. When a woman loves sex,a man and will love having sex with her; this means the willingness in bed has a lot to do with attractiveness>

Do's and Don't's On a First Date

Do’s and Don’ts on a first Date:
Do make compliments that are true and real. Do not exaggerate and make untruthful compliments .For examples do not tell a woman she looks like Halle Berry when she is not. Or a man he looks like Denzel Washington when he is not.
Do tell lies because everyone is expected to tell lies to impress the opposite sex, but limit the lies to make first time impressions and not life time lies that you will hinder the relationships progress in the future. Mind you; you are building a love foundation and should not have loopholes to begin with.
Men-do not offer to buy a car for a woman on the first date. It will make you look desperate. And or will make them think you are paying them for their sexuality.
Women-do not accept gifts such as a car from men that you do not know, it will lead to rape or altercation. Because when a man offer to buy you a car on the first date; it is too obvious that something is not right. Remember a man will always expect something in return after a nice gesture and will definitely want something bigger after buying a car. A romantic man will start by buying a flower, a coffee, a drink, and or lunch on the first date. And because it is not too expensive, they will not desperately want something in return.
Dress nice to impress, mind you first impression always counts. So choose to wear something comfortable and sexy. Do not wear excessive make up but try to highlight your beauty by applying some as you wish.
Keep conversations going by talking about common interests with the intent of learning each other’s likes or dislikes? Do not talk about your whole self in the first five minutes. This could take all the curiosity out of the equation and there will be nothing to talk about anymore.
Do flirt, but do not use intensive sexual content on the first day. People want to talk about sexuality but are sometimes not comfortable doing so on the first date. And sometimes it will bring out the impression that he or she is looking for sex.

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